Wired For Success: How to Overcome Self -Sabotage Colleen Suchecki www.BelieveGrowShine.com
TRUTH You are the only one that can ever hold you back. It’s your past experiences and whether you have HEALED or coped from them that will hold you back.
DEFINITION OF CRISIS/TRAUMA Everyone has their own definition. Examples: Divorce, loss or illness of loved one, health crisis, abuse, infidelity, childhood trauma, etc. They have a greater impact than you realize.
HOW DOES A PAST TRAUMA IMPACT YOUR BUSINESS NOW? What happens when you go through a trauma Can prevent you from following up with potential clients Being more visible (speaking, networking) taking more risks
Success is 80% Mindset 20% Strategy Tony Robbins
1st Mindset: Overcome/Recovering/ Survived from a crisis or trauma What??? But I have! It’s YOUR perspective that determines your interaction with the world The energy of those words How to breakthrough?
How does this show up in your business? Do you always have to overcome some adversity? Are you just barely surviving financially or emotionally? Stressed all the time? One obstacle after another? Have you labeled yourself a survivor?
Mindset #2: Victim The biggest, sneakiest saboteur of your success It’s YOUR perspective that determines your interaction in the world Encouraged by society How this shows up in your business Client story
Are you in the victim mindset? How is that impacting your business right now? What would be possible if you could change it?
My Story
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Why we attach these mindsets in the first place and why we sabotage Part of you feels threatened by change wants you to stay in your comfort/safe zone After a crisis/trauma your system gets “wired” to respond this way - protective mechanism Triggers are actions needed to grow your business / Part of you is threatened by growth Your body will always protect itself
Key to overcoming protective instincts Awareness of what is REALLY happening Being scared but taking action anyways Healing the past trauma and unfreezing yourself
How does this show up? Procrastination Prevents you from going networking, speaking more, blogging, videos Overcoming my speaking terror Client story What is 1 thing that you want to do in your business but you have been holding yourself back?
Cancer for your business - lack of belief in yourself Keep in a job you hate while trying to build your business Pushes away potential clients and opportunities Why you could be doing everything right, but still not moving forward Part of you doesn’t believe
How does belief get eroded? Our “failures” We would never talk to our worst enemy the way we talk to ourselves Repressed anger/resentment/un- forgiveness for those past choices are TOXIC Client story
Think of 1 goal you have now in your business How much do you believe you can reach it? (be honest) If you believed 100% in yourself what is 1 think you would do NOW to bring you toward your goal?
Free Gift: Heal Yourself, Heal Your Business! Text healyourself to 38470 How coping from a past crisis or trauma is killing your business and what to do instead How to recognize the lingering “crisis mode” that hurts your business, every day Sign up for a Complimentary Breakthrough Consult at the break
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