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Budapest 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, Netherlands TED BTP Coaching Presence: Research Conference Greenwich APECS The effects of interpersonal 2017 synchrony on goal attainment ICF Tünde Erdös Webinar 25 September 24 th Annual NOBCO International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference ISCP 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference 11-13 April 2018 Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

AGENDA Who am I as a coach? How does my being as a coach shape my research? What’s my purpose today? How will we work today? 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

How will we work today? 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

What is interpersonal synchrony to you? A school of fish Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference 11 October 2018 The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment 25 September 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

What is interpersonal synchrony to you? Caregiver and baby 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

What is interpersonal synchrony to you? Two clocks on the wall 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

What is interpersonal synchrony to you? What do these pictures have in common? 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

Coaching presence Coaching presence Coaching presence Coaching presence Presence through synchrony Presence through synchrony Spontaneous responses Spontaneous responses Timeliness of responses Timeliness of responses Sense of belonging Sense of belonging Visceral responses Visceral responses Safety of environment Safety of environment Sensitivity to needs Sensitivity to needs Confident sharing Confident sharing Unspoken interactions Unspoken interactions Presence through attunement Presence through attunement In-synch coupling In-synch coupling Adoption of energy levels Adoption of energy levels Swinging in unison Swinging in unison Dancing in the moment Dancing in the moment 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands Netherlands

Exercise I Who are you when you are at your best as a coach? How are you? Think of a moment when you experienced yourself as being fully present with a client of yours: How did you Self-reflection KNOW that you were present? What was the evidence for yourself? What do clients notice and what helps them to feel capacitated to deal with emotional stuff? 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

Exercise II – A client case with 3 volunteers What would be possible responses of: - being fully present, IMAGINE - being not fully present? 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

Questions for volunteers - Recap Use of self in coaching presence What is my visceral urge? (non-verbal response) How confidently can I share it? (e.g. risk taking, flexibility, openness to experience, courage) What do I notice is going on for my client? (sensitivity and responsiveness to client’s need) How will I notice my client feels really understood? (e.g. simplicity & lightness of relationship) How will my client notice? (e.g. safety, capacity to self-regulate) How am I talking to myself? What am I saying to myself? (.e.g. noise) 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands

Exercise III – What’s your mood? Exercise III – What’s your mood? There is intelligence in hidden sensation: we open the door to There is intelligence in hidden sensation: we open the door to more meaning, greater courage, deeper connection more meaning, greater courage, deeper connection FELT-SENSE FELT-SENSE The better you can feel yourself, the better you can share that The better you can feel yourself, the better you can share that feeling with your client feeling with your client This is BEING more as a relevant skill for both: coach & client This is BEING more as a relevant skill for both: coach & client 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference 24 th Annual International Mentoring, Coaching & Supervision Conference The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment The change process in coaching: interpersonal synchrony and self-regulation as lynchpins of goal-attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment Coaching Presence: The effects of interpersonal synchrony on goal attainment 25 September 2018 25 September 2018 11 October 2018 11 October 2018 11-13 April 2018 11-13 April 2018 How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? How do synchrony and safety relate in coaching? Amsterdam, Amsterdam, A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future A cut above the rest – taking organisations into the future Netherlands Netherlands