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THE MARRIAGE OF COMMUNICATION & CODE BY ANDREA GOULET & M. SCOTT FORD FOUNDERS, CORGIBYTES @andreagoulet

WHEN I 
 We remodel existing WAS 
 software to make it stable, IN HIGH 
 scalable, and secure. SCHOOL…. @andreagoulet

THERE 
 We remodel existing software to WAS 
 make it stable, scalable, and THIS GIRL… secure. @andreagoulet

A DECADE OR SO LATER… @andreagoulet

I NEEDED MARKETING HELP @mscottford

THEN I STUMBLED ON THIS BLOGGER… @andreagoulet

SHE LOOKED FAMILIAR @andreagoulet

AHA! I THOUGHT… @andreagoulet

SOON AFTER, WE MET BY A POOL… @andreagoulet

SHE HAD LOTS OF IDEAS… @andreagoulet

BUT I COULDN’T HIRE HER. @andreagoulet

SO I OFFERED HER 51%… @andreagoulet

SHE SAID YES… @andreagoulet

A FEW YEARS LATER, I ASKED ANOTHER QUESTION… @andreagoulet

SHE SAID YES AGAIN… @andreagoulet

IT’S BEEN AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE TO GROW TOGETHER… @andreagoulet

BUT OMG IT’S BEEN TOUGH TO WORK TOGETHER SOMETIMES! @andreagoulet

MARKETERS & DEVELOPERS DON’T USUALLY GET ALONG… @andreagoulet

SO WE WENT TO COUPLES COUNSELING… @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #1 “I” STATEMENTS @andreagoulet

HOW TO NOT SOUND LIKE THIS GUY @andreagoulet @andreagoulet

I FEEL … WHEN YOU… BECAUSE… @andreagoulet

THIS WORKS FOR CODE REVIEWS TOO… @andreagoulet

BEFORE @andreagoulet

AFTER @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #2 LISTEN, VERIFY, VALIDATE @andreagoulet

LISTEN VERIFY VALIDATE active after each 
 feelings listening phrase matter don’t anything empathy interrupt else? put your feelings 
 upon on the shelf completion @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #3 SHAME VS. GUILT @andreagoulet

DR. BRENÉ BROWN @andreagoulet

SHAME GUILT “ I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I’LL “ THIS IS A SKILL. IT’S NEW NEVER LEARN HOW TO BE A AND I’M FRUSTRATED. BUT MARKETER/CODER.” I CAN LEARN IT.” @andreagoulet source: h*p://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419/

Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.” -DR. BRENÉ BROWN @andreagoulet Source: I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power And Courage In a Culture of Shame

BLAME DISCHARGING DISCOMFORT AND PAIN WE FEEL FROM SHAME. IT HAS AN INVERSE RELATIONSHIP WITH ACCOUNTABILITY. @andreagoulet source: h*p://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419/

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COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #4 YES, AND… @andreagoulet

SHATTERING GLASS YOU’LL BE SHOCKED HOW OFTEN YOU DO THIS @andreagoulet

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WELL, ACTUALLY @andreagoulet @andreagoulet

WELL, ACTUALLY YES, AND @andreagoulet @andreagoulet

RULES OF IMPROV 1. SAY YES 2. SAY YES, AND 3. MAKE STATEMENTS 4. THINK HAPPY ACCIDENTS @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #5 RADICAL CANDOR @andreagoulet

CARE PERSONALLY CHALLENGE 
 DIRECTLY Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

CARE PERSONALLY RUINOUS EMPATHY CHALLENGE 
 DIRECTLY Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

CARE PERSONALLY RUINOUS EMPATHY CHALLENGE 
 DIRECTLY MANIPULATIVE INSINCERITY Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

CARE PERSONALLY RUINOUS EMPATHY CHALLENGE 
 DIRECTLY MANIPULATIVE OBNOXIOUS INSINCERITY AGGRESSION Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

CARE PERSONALLY RUINOUS RADICAL CANDOR EMPATHY CHALLENGE 
 DIRECTLY MANIPULATIVE OBNOXIOUS INSINCERITY AGGRESSION Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

RADICAL CANDOR HUMBLE HELPFUL IMMEDIATE PRIVATE (CRITICISM) PUBLIC (PRAISE) DOESN’T PERSONALIZE Source: www.radicalcandor.com @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION FRAMEWORK #6 INCEPTION INTERRUPTIONS @andreagoulet

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COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL YOU CAN LEARN. @andreagoulet

COMMUNICATION IS A SKILL YOU CAN LEARN. IF SCOTT CAN, YOU CAN TOO. @andreagoulet

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CONTACT INFO @andreagoulet @mscottford @corgibytes corgibytes.com LegacyCode.Rocks @andreagoulet

QUESTIONS? @andreagoulet