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Managing Grief During the Holidays December 12, 2019 Welcome! Moderator: Presenter: Marissa Frieder, MPH Kathy Nugent, LCSW Assistant Director Director of Regional Programs WorkWell NYC Cancer Care About WorkWell NYC WorkWell NYC seeks to

  1. Managing Grief During the Holidays December 12, 2019

  2. Welcome! Moderator: Presenter: Marissa Frieder, MPH Kathy Nugent, LCSW Assistant Director Director of Regional Programs WorkWell NYC Cancer Care

  3. About WorkWell NYC WorkWell NYC seeks to create workplaces that help our employees live healthy, active lifestyles, and provide health and well-being services, programs, and resources at the worksite and beyond.

  4. 12 Days of Gratitude: 12/9 – 12/20 • Download the challenge guide at nyc.gov/bewell and follow along each day. • Follow @workwellnyc on Instagram for daily prompts and posts. • Share what you’re grateful for at surveymonkey.com/r/goforgratitude or use the hashtag #goforgratitude on Instagram for a chance to be featured! 4

  5. Today’s Presenter Kathy Nugent, LCSW Director of Regional Programs Cancer Care

  6. Overview • What is grief? • Myths and misconceptions of grief • What is anticipatory grief? • Coping during the holiday season: maintaining hope 6

  7. What Is Grief? • Grief is the natural reaction to loss. • Grief is both a universal and a personal experience. • Individual experiences of grief vary and are influenced by the nature of the loss. 7

  8. Many Faces of Grief 8

  9. Myths/Misconceptions • There are predictable stages. • You have to cry. • There is only one way to grieve. • Intuitive grief vs instrumental grief • It takes a year. • Time heals. • No major decision making for the first year. 9

  10. Myths/Misconceptions • Children do not grieve. • The family will grow closer. • Sudden death and expected death are the same. • Grief intensity is directly related to love. • Depression is inevitable/people require therapy. • Medication is never indicated or is required. 10

  11. What Is Anticipatory Grief? Anticipatory grief, or grief that occurs before death, is common among people who are facing the eventual death of a loved one or their own death. Lynne Eldridge, MD 11

  12. Managing Loss During the Holiday Season 12

  13. Remember: You Are Not Alone 13

  14. Be Honest With Your Feelings 14

  15. Remembrance 15

  16. Holiday Rituals And Traditions 16

  17. Communicate Your Needs 17

  18. The Gift Of No 18

  19. Personal Triggers 19

  20. Make Lists 20

  21. Children Grieve T oo… 21

  22. Raising Resilient Children After Loss 4 core beliefs for building resilience in children: 1. They have some control over their lives 2. They can learn from failure 3. They matter as human beings 4. They have real strengths to rely on and share From “Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant 22

  23. Self-Care 23

  24. Support 24

  25. Hope 25

  26. Grief 26

  27. Acts of Kindness 27

  28. Kindness In The Workplace • Listen • Don’t give advice • Stay connected • Offer help with practical tasks • Ask, “How are you today?” 28

  29. The Elephant In The Room “The Elephant In The Room” by Terry Kettering 29

  30. Remember… “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us .” - Helen Keller 30

  31. Cancer Care Programs 31

  32. About Cancer Car e 32

  33. Resources Center for Bereavement The Center for Loss and Renewal • • http://www.centerforbereavement.com/ http://www.lossandrenewal.com/ The Center for Complicated Grief VNSNJ Hospice and Palliative Care • • https://complicatedgrief.columbia.edu/ http://www.vnsny.org A Caring Hand MJHS Hospice • • https://www.acaringhand.org/ www.mjhs.org The Jewish Board Bereavement Services Compassionate Friends • • https://jewishboard.org/about-us/programs- www.compassionatefriends.nyc services/jewish-community- services/bereavement-support/ 33

  34. Additional Resources For City Employees NYC Employee Assistance Program (EAP) Free and confidential support for employees and families • Onsite support following crises at the workplace • 212-306-7660 | eap@olr.nyc.gov | nyc.gov/eap • NYC Well: Free and confidential 24/7 mental health support for you or • someone you care about • 888-NYC-WELL | Text WELL to 65173 | Chat nyc.gov/nycwell Texting and live chat services are available in English, Spanish and Traditional Chinese. Free over-the-phone interpretation services are available in more than 200 languages.

  35. Thanks For Attending! Questions? Use the chat box on the bottom of your screen. We want to hear from you! Please fill out a brief survey to share your feedback on today’s presentation at: bit.ly/griefwebinarsurvey nyc.gov/workwellnyc | workwell@olr.nyc.gov

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