Parenting the Hurt Child
Regina M. Kupecky LSW Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio 12608 State Road, Suite 1 Cleveland, Ohio 44133 440-230-1960 #5 ReginaKu@msn.com www.abcofohio.net 2
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NEED ANGER TRUST HIGH AROUSAL RAGE GRATIFICATION 5
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Safety First!!!!! If it is not broken, don’t fix it You know the child best Developmentally sound 7
Avoid control battles Win the ones you take on Pick and choose carefully 8
Ineffective Discipline • Rewards • Punishments • Time Outs • Corporal • Grounding • Deprivation • Isolation Keck and Kupecky PARENTING THE HURT CHILD 9
Effective Discipline • Natural • Logical 10
Control Battles Holes Choosing issues Choices Praise/Accountability Prescribing Symptom Unpredictability Reciprocity Reducing anger Humor and play One minute scold 11
Treatment Principles Completely truthful disclosures help the child to heal and grow 12
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